The Lens of Illusion

When I use the word “Trauma” in the context of this work I do, I am referring to the effects a person’s inherited ancestral imprints, childhood and life experience has had across all levels of their psyche. When a human being goes through turbulence in their lives, the manner in which they compartmentalize, process, interpret and rationalize it depends solely on their lineage profiling, personality, conditioning and the level of competent emotional support available to them at the time of the crisis. A mediocre “growing up” type of experience can result in a catastrophic energetic fragmentation where there is a lack of acknowledgement, protection, support or reassurance from parents/guardians/family/society.

When I talk about an energetic fragmentation, I am referring to the detachment from a healthy “I am” perspective in how a person views themselves. I look at how they converted it to a bad reflection of themselves (i.e.: I mustn’t be good enough, otherwise I would have got top marks in my exam”). This detachment leaves a gap for detrimental inner dialogues to begin looping in the psyche. They are now wearing what I refer to as the “lens of illusion”, meaning they are filtering their entire life experience through illusions created via detrimental conversions which became their inner dialogue, such as, “I am not good enough”. That person is now more susceptible to being beaten down faster and harder than ever before, and they begin to snowball quickly layering on and onto the original experience.

A flawed rhetoric quickly embeds into the psyche and becomes their new normal - often never even remembering operating or thinking any other way! Furthermore, most clients are completely unaware of the detrimental inner dialogues running in them and more often than not are completely shocked at some of the content I find! Its fascinating to me how the human mind, subconscious, spirit and heart converts life’s trials to our detriment, literally blocking us from our happiness and abundance in all its forms.

It doesn’t have to be catastrophic or obvious “textbook trauma” experiences for it to leave its hard dent on your psyche. If you have found yourself here reading my page, please don’t underestimate your experience. Don’t gaslight yourself by rationalizing that other people had it much worse and you have no right to complain or that you came from a good family. It has no bearing in the realm of the human psyche. If you are stuck, suffering or totally blocked from moving forward then please cut yourself a break - there are valid reasons for it and there are breakthrough solutions available to you here at The Quantum Reboot.

The society you grew up in, the characters that shaped you, the experiences you lived through and your inherited unresolved traumas all created lens of illusion that you are viewing life, people and situations through.

Trauma primarily destroys a persons relationship with oneself as the falsities it creates causes one to disconnect from their divine truth. Trauma creates unconscious programs, beliefs, perspectives, mindsets and conditioning that run as a lens of illusion in your psyche. To put it simply, your Life is experienced through the lens of your trauma. The essence of a Quantum Reboot is to decode, neutralize and release those unconscious programs in order to get a handle on your disempowering reactions to life, situations and people.

“You are the common denominator in all of the patterns that are present in your life and relationships”

I am hitting hard here because if you find that truth to be triggering for you then this is probably not the place for you at this time. However if you have attained a certain level of self awareness and consciousness, you will know that statement to be true - You are the common denominator in all of your struggles.

The vast majority of people will feel the reverberations of their trauma ring out through their lowered sense of confidence, self-esteem and self worth. Trauma destroys a persons ability to have a healthy loving relationship with oneself. Typically a persons most significant relationship - usually a partnership or marriage will reflect back to them anything that requires resolution or healing within them. Anything unresolved will be triggered in your most significant or challenging relationships in romance, family, friends, colleagues and in business.

The merits and benefits of engaging in deep inner reflection and release work far outweigh the effort it requires.

Keep a low profile and work on yourself for 6 months to create permanent change in every area of your life……!!

The Ripple effect on your life.......

  • Self Image Corruption

    The relationship to self is the most important relationship you will ever have.

    When life doesn't go according to your expectations there is an inevitable disappointment and heartache that comes along with that. As sentient beings we often translate those disappointments and heartaches to being somehow our fault thus corrupting how we view ourselves.

    We are interacting with people who are also operating through THEIR lens and making moves and decisions accordingly. Unfortunately, we inadvertently become entangled in their "reality". We can get easily hurt as a result of not recognizing that and not placing the correct meaning on the situation.

    You reflect the meaning of events, situations and peoples behavior on being somehow your fault. Detrimental inner dialogues are created on some level of the psyche. Unfortunately us humans tend to destroy ourselves internally first.

    In time these corruptions can result in you unintentionally or intentionally hurting others.

  • Toxic Family dynamics

    Evolving souls on the spiritual path will find themselves caught and stifled in toxic family dynamics.

    Dynamics such as enmeshment, manipulation, addictions, being scapegoated, poor boundaries, lack of support, abuse of all types and narcissistic personalities and behaviors. In an unhealthy family, any members who develop their own identity outside of the status quo of what's expected of them will be subject to all sorts of backlash. Most commonly a smear campaign becomes the weapon of choice to stifle anyone's attempt to evolve as a sovereign being.

    If you have been labeled as the black sheep or accused of thinking you are better than your family of origin, chances are you hold soul contracts and agreements to help heal and resolve these issues for the family line. This is a lonely and isolating place to be that comes with a grieving process of sorts.

    Where denial is maintained or healing is unresolved the patterns will continue to run down through the lineage and will reemerge in the off-spring.

  • Dysfunctional Intimate relationships

    Where trauma has not been tended to, you will attract a matching resonance in the form of a romantic partner. Intimate partners will reflect back exactly that which we need to heal within ourselves.

    If you have been conditioned to the point of accepting being mistreated and disrespected you will find that you will be a very "compatible" partner for another unhealed individual whom has been conditioned to mistreat and disrespect their partner. This point of attraction and resonance always occurs at an energetic level. It is the unspoken energetic conversation that happens between humas all the time.

    You will continue in a pattern of unhealthy relationships until you do your inner work. An emotionally, mentally and spiritually healthy person will not be compatible or attracted to your undealt with traumas.

    Take a year out to work on yourself, take accountability, learn, evolve, educate yourself, heal and grow. Only then will you be ready to be "consciously coupled" in a healthy intimate relationship

  • Career Blocks & Limitations

    Your work colleagues, team leaders or employees could tell you more about your limitations than you would care for them to know.

    Issues with stress, overwhelm, lack of motivation, poor leadership, micro-managing, over-working, under preforming, conflict, or bullying can all be traced back to the inner dialogues running in the people concerned in any given work related situation.

    It is a modern-day nightmare for corporations, employers and managers to ethically and effectively navigate team members to become conscious to their unconscious programmes, perspectives and traumas that are seeping out into their work creating blemishes on their legacy within the team.

    Successful self employment requires you to become aware of the undercurrent of the unconscious prograames you have. Until you do the inner work all of your limitations and struggles will pop up consistently to haunt your progress.

    Financial blocks and an unhealthy relationship with money are all resulting from your internal indoctrinated money consciousness.