The Lens of Illusion®

The relationship to self is the most important relationship you will ever have.

When life doesn't go according to your expectations there is an inevitable disappointment and heartache that comes along with that. As sentient beings we often translate those disappointments and heartaches to being somehow our fault thus corrupting how we view ourselves.

We are interacting with people who are also operating through THEIR lens and making moves and decisions accordingly. Unfortunately, we inadvertently become entangled in their "reality". We can get easily hurt as a result of not recognizing that and not placing the correct meaning on the situation.

You reflect the meaning of events, situations and peoples behavior on being somehow your fault. Detrimental inner dialogues are created on some level of the psyche. Unfortunately us humans tend to destroy ourselves internally first.

In time these corruptions can result in you unintentionally or intentionally hurting others.

Evolving souls on the spiritual path will find themselves caught and stifled in toxic family dynamics.

Dynamics such as enmeshment, manipulation, addictions, being scapegoated, poor boundaries, lack of support, abuse of all types and narcissistic personalities and behaviors. In an unhealthy family, any members who develop their own identity outside of the status quo of what's expected of them will be subject to all sorts of backlash. Most commonly a smear campaign becomes the weapon of choice to stifle anyone's attempt to evolve as a sovereign being.

If you have been labeled as the black sheep or accused of thinking you are better than your family of origin, chances are you hold soul contracts and agreements to help heal and resolve these issues for the family line. This is a lonely and isolating place to be that comes with a grieving process of sorts.

Where denial is maintained or healing is unresolved the patterns will continue to run down through the lineage and will reemerge in the off-spring.

Where trauma has not been tended to, you will attract a matching resonance in the form of a romantic partner. Intimate partners will reflect back exactly that which we need to heal within ourselves.

If you have been conditioned to the point of accepting being mistreated and disrespected you will find that you will be a very "compatible" partner for another unhealed individual whom has been conditioned to mistreat and disrespect their partner. This point of attraction and resonance always occurs at an energetic level. It is the unspoken energetic conversation that happens between humas all the time.

You will continue in a pattern of unhealthy relationships until you do your inner work. An emotionally, mentally and spiritually healthy person will not be compatible or attracted to your undealt with traumas.

Take a year out to work on yourself, take accountability, learn, evolve, educate yourself, heal and grow. Only then will you be ready to be "consciously coupled" in a healthy intimate relationship

Your work colleagues, team leaders or employees could tell you more about your limitations than you would care for them to know.

Issues with stress, overwhelm, lack of motivation, poor leadership, micro-managing, over-working, under preforming, conflict, or bullying can all be traced back to the inner dialogues running in the people concerned in any given work related situation.

It is a modern-day nightmare for corporations, employers and managers to ethically and effectively navigate team members to become conscious to their unconscious programmes, perspectives and traumas that are seeping out into their work creating blemishes on their legacy within the team.

Successful self employment requires you to become aware of the undercurrent of the unconscious prograames you have. Until you do the inner work all of your limitations and struggles will pop up consistently to haunt your progress.

Financial blocks and an unhealthy relationship with money are all resulting from your internal indoctrinated money consciousness.